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Jun 09
2009
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the heart serves a vital role...Posted by: girlfrommars   |
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why do we miss people we shouldn't miss (or maybe, WE THINK we shoudn't miss)???
technically, we utter unpleasant words of disgust when we fight and get irritated with people. we can't blame ourselves. we get insane, one way or another. we throw out time bombs which counts not from 10 to 0 but from 1 to 0. we are but crazy to not even let our defender speak for himself. we don't reserve a single chance for a simple explanation or an honest remorse. yes, looking at this, we all become jerks at some point in our lives as normal individuals. but when the war is over and the white flag's raised up high, we then notice that the one we ended the battle with is the one we cannot live without. sure, we won physically, but deep down inside our soul, we could not help but accept the feeling of regret and the feeling of losing. we smile, knowing that we've accomplished something impossible; but hey, that does not end it all. just like a scene from a movie - cops goes into the picture just when the poor star has already been shot by the villain right on the head - the one thing that could have saved the fight is the one thing that is missing in action. and just when the presence of an important person is taken out of the scene, this one thing that could have saved everything just pops out from nowhere, making regret stand out and leaving victory hanging.
and so it goes, the heart has been missing terribly that the mind is the only thing that's doing the job. true, tactics are pruned from the mind, thus we gain victory. but then, if we think hard, the heart controls basically everything, and the mind would not work without it. the heart serves a task to break up a fight and turn it into something better. the heart does not say what's the right way to accomplish a task, but rather takes note of what really would a person want to do with the certain task that he/she is up to - it gives us the best ways. in the end, the heart would be the only thing that would get this evil thing called regret out of the scene. it's your heart that you used, after all. it's what you really wanted to do, no regrets!
so how come i haven't answered the question???haha why do we miss people we shouldn't miss (or maybe, WE THINK we shoudn't miss)??? simple. we THINK we should not miss a person but we do miss him/her because probably, the last time we talked to/met that person, we came to conclusions using our mind and not our heart. and now that we've been away from that person, we feel that we should've said what was meant to be said or shouldn't have said what was not meant to be said. now we're being haunted by the thought of that person being gone physically or emotionally. the thought itself would induce us to think not about the last words said or the last things done but rather think of the person him/herself or worse, the best times that you've had had with that person. thus, missing the person you THINK you must hate or should not miss. the heart says things that are way too honest. tell people what your heart feels and not what your mind thinks of. the mind may contradict, but we need to realize that the heart is the very best thing that we have next to the best decision-makers.
